Do you ever why this world seems so chaotic?
One conclusion could be the fact that the world has different individuals that stand to present only themselves or a fraction.
It could be the mentality they grew up with or the environment that moulds a person.
When we give our word to something, we should learn to honor it. For instance, "I love you forever." Do not use this line if you're not interested in a person or trying to be funny. Perhaps, take out the world forever and it may be valid to a certain point.
Giving our word to another isn't simply having words spoken from our mouth to their ears. It carries the weight of responsibility and honour in it.
So what is honour?
It is the evaluation of a person's trustworthiness and social status based on that individual's espousals and actions. Honour is deemed exactly what determines a person's character: whether or not the person reflects honesty, respect, integrity, or fairness. Accordingly, individuals are assigned worth and stature based on the harmony of their actions, code of honour, and that of the society at large. Honour can be analysed as a relativistic concept, i.e., conflicts between individuals and even cultures arising as a consequence of material circumstance and ambition, rather than fundamental differences in principle.
Alternatively, it can be viewed as nativist — that honour is as real to the human condition as love, and likewise derives from the formative personal bonds that establish one's personal dignity and character.
From the above, we could roughly deduce a handful of reasons why disunity or conflicts happen in our lifes. To keep and honour one's word is as good as a promise given to God from us.
Before you lead and set an example as leaders...UNDERSTAND the meaning of honor.